Young adulthood is a time of new experiences and experimentation. It is during these years that many young adults make their first forays into social situations involving alcohol or drugs. While some individuals have the ability to “party” and still maintain a relatively healthy lifestyle, others will struggle with their alcohol or drug use. Some young adults may need help learning how to quit drinking or using drugs, and need understand that using alcohol or drugs to help deal with their problems is an unhealthy coping mechanism.
If you suspect that your adult child’s “partying” has crossed the line into self medication or substance abuse, early intervention is vital. As discussed previously, if left unchecked, self medication has the potential to turn into an addiction. It is also important to keep in mind that there are certain populations that are more at-risk for abusing drugs or alcohol than others, aside from individuals with a family history or genetic predisposition to substance abuse. Individuals who have ADHD, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and other developmental or psychological diagnoses are more prone to substance abuse and are more likely to self medicate. These more vulnerable populations are also more likely to need help learning how to quit drinking or using drugs as a social lubricant or coping mechanism.
As a parent, it is important to keep the signs of drug use, problem drinking, and/or binge drinking in mind. Symptoms include:
- Neglecting responsibilities (calling out of work or missing work, failing or skipping classes, etc.) due to substance abuse
- Bloodshot eyes, larger or smaller pupils
- Extreme neglect of physical appearance/personal hygiene
- Slurred speech or impaired motor skills
- Shaking
- Unexplained debt/financial problems
- Secretive or suspicious behavior; lying about substance use
- A sudden change in peer groups
- Lack of motivation
- Change in attitude/mood swings
How to Help if Your Child is Displaying Signs of Drug Use or Problematic Drinking:
If your child is exhibiting these signs of drug use, problem drinking, and/or binge drinking, reach out and talk to him or her. It is important to let your child know that you are not ashamed, embarrassed, or angry. Explain that being honest about their substance use is the best way that you can help them help themselves. Be supportive, and try and convince him/her to speak to a healthcare provider or mental health professional.
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